10 ways men can be prevented from cheating
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Be willing to initiate s.e.x: Men equate s.ex with desirability. Help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.
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e open to experimentation: It can
be easy to get comfortable and fear of the unknown can stop you from
being open to different se.xual experiences. Allow your man to try new
things with you. If you won’t, there will be someone else who will. I’m
not saying to engage in se.xual activity you find repulsive but allow
yourself to experience new things with the man you love.
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Don’t over-accomodate: Sometimes
in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating. Men get into
relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks
like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated
casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be
and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their man realizes this
is what he asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he really wants.
Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.
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Don’t become too controlling: Often
without realizing it, when we get into relationships we attempt to
control the other person to do what works best for us. We engage in
destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming,
criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding to
control.
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Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him:Sometimes
when women “get” the guy and get married, they begin to get a false
sense of security. Remember, all relationships are voluntary. A person
can leave at any time. With an over 50% divorce rate in this country, we
need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive
relationship, not simply to acquire one.
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Let him have time to himself: Some
men cheat because they begin to feel hemmed in by the relationship.
Engaging in an affair can provide them the sense of freedom they lose in
a relationship. Allow your man time for himself without you. Don’t try
to monopolize all your guy’s time. Be open to time apart for him to
spend with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so he does not feel he has no
freedom.
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Be aware of your emotions: Whether
or not we are aware of it, women are masters at using their emotions to
communicate volumes without speaking any words. We communicate anger,
rage, sadness and disappointment that is received by our partners.
Instead of taking that as a cue to do something different, some men
begin to look for another partner who idolizes them the way you used to.
Don’t forget, your man wants to know he lights you up not that he is
constantly disappointing you.
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Prioritize your relationship: Often,
when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an “affair”
that’s not se.xual. It’s more socially appropriate. This “affair” takes
the form of prioritizing something, anything, over the relationship.
This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything
that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first position.
Prioritize your relationship over everything else. This is the
relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade
away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it
carefully.
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Learn his love language: If you
are not familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages, please
read it. It has the potential to save more marriages than marriage
counseling has. Learn your man’s love language and speak it to him
regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.
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Find his relationship pattern: I
do not know how to combat the biology argument. Some men simply believe
it is hard wired into their genes to have se.xual relations with as many
women as they can. If this is your man, it probably won’t matter what
you do. Try to recognize these men early on by asking about their dating
history. If this is a pattern with your man, he probably isn’t likely
to change just because you love him best. Your best defense against this
problem is to be discriminating at the onset.
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